A Problem > 1
Many of us recognize that a child occupies the Oval Office. Not a cute, well-behaved, adorable child that you might find in a heart-warming 1930s movie, but a nasty, selfish, willful, and destructive child who bucks any kind of authority. Worse, a classic bully who operates without restraints.
But it’s also worth considering that we have become, in a many ways, a nation of children. Not just happily irresponsible, like a pack of Peter Pan’s lost boys, but often cruel and vindictive. This is, of course, unfair. I’m really talking about a sizable portion of the population, probably a minority, but one that has taken over many of our institutions and has set not only the tone of discourse but the national agenda.
The most glaring example of this childishness is the refusal to accept the reality of the pandemic, especially those who gleefully refuse to wear masks or follow social distancing. They justify their resistance with claims their rights are being infringed, the threat is exaggerated, conspiracy theories, and a false sense they are somehow immune. But what’s really behind it is a joyful exuberance in defying authority.
It’s like when a parent tells a child not to play in the street because of the traffic and he runs out the door anyway, yelling “Try and stop me!” Yes, a part of him may realize there’s a risk, and even that some other kids may get hurt. But not me—I’m too fast and smart. And anyway, the thrill of defying authority is too great to resist.
Historical Roots
Resistance to authority has deep roots in the American psyche, and is replayed over and over again in popular films and stories in which an everyman/woman is forced to confront corrupt officials or even agents of a national conspiracy, or powerful corporations. And usually, the antihero somehow prevails.
This national trait complements the myth of rugged individualism, whereby strong-willed, independent pioneers conquered a wilderness and founded a country, conveniently forgetting this incredible land grab could never have happened without the cavalry to back it up.
But this diminution of governments’ role, along with a natural suspicion of all authority, has produced a childish mentality. The anti-tax movement promoted the idea that “government” was taking “your” money for its own purposes. You could certainly spend it better. This coupled with the belief in massive waste and fraud, and also in the incompetence of the public sector encapsulated in Reagan’s memorable phrase.
The Prevalence of Magical Thinking
Of course, this is nonsense. Taxes are the fuel that enables governments to function and civilizations to flourish. Only children believe they can get what they want without really paying for it. It’s magical thinking.
So, what do these adult children want? They want the local government to build the roads and bridges they travel on, provide schools for their kids and the basic services (police, fire, traffic lights, etc.) they need. And they expect the national government to protect the country, facilitate trade and commerce, and provide other services, like mail delivery. And they are convinced they can get all this on the cheap,
Moreover, they want clean air and water and food without poisons, but oppose government regulations that would make this happen. More magical thinking.
Hoarding the Cookie Jar
But they don’t want to pay for things that benefit society as a whole, or that only benefit others, and certainly not for those whom they do not believe are deserving—the poor who won’t work, the elderly who didn’t save enough for their “golden years,” and the physically or mentally challenged who are just a burden on society.
Here, magical thinking—I can get what I want for very little—combines with a selfishness that, miraculously, is converted into a virtue—I want to save these lazy good-for-nothings from their dependence. But it also fuses with the rejection of any kind of responsibility—for the greater social good, or for those less fortunate.
Defying and Denying
The child also emerges in the willful defiance of authority (“you can’t make me!”) and the stubborn denial of unpleasant truths, especially about risks, where bravado trumps common sense. But the defiance goes beyond downplaying threats and assuming unnecessary risks. It unleashes a destructive impulse targeting social norms, civility, fairness, rationality, authoritative sources of information, the rights of others, and ultimately others as well. And it does so without taking any responsibility for the results, the ultimate definition of childishness.
This group elected the President because of his own destructive impulses, and now they cheer each other on as they continuously gut the legal and social norms of society.
So what we have now is a perfect storm: a spoiled child in the White House, a mob of unruly adults with a mind-set akin to the children in Lord for the Flies, numerous officials elected by this mob or selected by the President who share many of these childish traits, a pack of adult officials who know better but still enable the child President in pursuit of their own agendas or careers, and a national crisis that demands leadership at every level and a truly united citizenry.